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September 5, 2003

Peretz alumni together again

Vancouverites join others from all across Canada for 90th anniversary.
MATT BELLAN SPECIAL TO THE JEWISH BULLETIN

Winnipeg
A little more than three years ago, Laurie Mainster started thinking about holding an event that would make history.

A member of the board of governors of the now defunct I.L. Peretz folk school in Winnipeg, he noticed that two groups of Peretz school alumni applied successfully for grants that year from the Peretz school trust fund that the board oversees. Each group had held a class reunion and Mainster was impressed with the "terrific time" they reported having.

Those two gatherings persuaded him it was time to hold a 90th anniversary reunion for the whole school, a mainly Yiddish-language institution that merged with the Hebrew-language Talmud Torah in 1983.

Mainster, a longtime advertising professional and Jewish community leader, drew on his expertise in both areas. He took the lead in setting up an administrative/planning committee that would eventually have more than a dozen subcomittees and about 40 volunteers.

"I told them it would take three years to get organized," he said of planning for the event, which happened in three stages.

With the windup of the I.L. Peretz folk school's 90th anniversary reunion in Winnipeg Aug. 4, he got a clearer idea of the historic impact that gathering has had.

"The reaction we got from the alumni attending was overwhelming," noted Mainster, chair of the July 31-Aug. 4 event. "They thanked us profusely."

About 250 guests from out of town attended a series of gatherings of former students and some teaching staff. And 750, the most at any single reunion event, sat down for the Saturday night dinner.

For Mainster, the most gratifying part of the five days was watching Peretz school friends from decades ago meet again.

"People were saying, 'I hadn't seen someone in over 50 years and we met again.' A guy put 20 names on his computer address book. They're going to e-mail each other, starting an association they never had before."

The gathering started with Thursday night registration at the Asper Jewish Community Campus and a chance for old Peretz school buddies to shmooze. It continued with a Friday night program at Congregation Etz Chayim, highlighted by a sing-song of Yiddish favorites. Saturday night, participants enjoyed a star-studded concert at the Pantages Playhouse Theatre, featuring Peretz school alumni who've become successful as U.S. entertainers, along with a local choir specially organized for the event. Sunday saw the opening of a Jewish Heritage Centre exhibit on the history of Yiddish and the role Peretz school played in keeping that language and culture alive.

The reunion dinner that night featured an open mic, where alumni and a former principal shared stories and songs from Peretz school. The celebration continued Monday morning with a bus tour of Winnipeg's "Jewish North End" and ended with a reception at the University of Manitoba in honor of the Yiddish program started there only last year.

Long lost friends repeatedly expressed joy at having the chance to come together again.

Sharon Love, a member of the reunion's registration committee, talked about that as she stood in line with hundreds, waiting to get into the Saturday night concert.

"We met at Kelekis [restaurant] today," Love recalled. "Some of the Simkin family (from here and out of town) were also there having lunch."

For Love, it was especially moving to see alumni Chassie Winocur Margolis and her sister, Layah Laks, both from California and over 80 years old, at the reunion with Layah's daughter, Esther Rubin.

"Thank you to Layah's daughter, who understood the importance of enabling her to be here, and to make sure her aunt got here," said Love.

The Selchen family, longtime pillars of the Peretz community, was one of many that showed up in force. Danny Selchen, a neurologist, flew in from Toronto to join his brother, Moshe Selchen, a retireed Talmud Torah/Peretz school principal, and their mother, Rivke, a Winnipegger. Their aunt, Leah Selchen, flew in all the way from Israel, especially for the reunion. Danny and Moshe's father and grandfather served as presidents of the Peretz school; Rivke was in the school's Muter Farein mothers' organization.

"I just found myself pretty much in tears a couple of time because of the memories it brought back," Moshe Selchen said of the reunion.

The five-day gathering "rekindled a lot of memories" for Danny Selchen, too.
A "secular spiritualism ... permeated the atmosphere of the school," he said. "A lot of us felt a passion about the whole subject."

"We felt we had teachers like parents," recalled Hannah Brownstone Hirt of Vancouver, a Peretz school kindergarten teacher in the late 1930s. "Everyone cared about every child."

John Feld, another reunion participant, attended the Peretz school in the 1950s with his late brother, Vic, his identical twin.

Now living in Toronto, Feld recalled the many Holocaust survivors teaching at the school in that era.

"I jokingly called Peretz school the zeks milyon (six million) school" said the former student, who describes himself as a Marxist-Leninist. "I had a sense of the injustice of the world, the persecution of the Jews.... One of the things I'm really ashamed of – we were so mean to our teachers. Some of them would hit us. One would pull your hair – and they would smoke in the classroom."

The atmosphere at the school was so casual, teachers let Feld and his best friend at the time, Brian Ostrowe, "marry" each other in a ceremony on the school playground. Their Grade 5 classmates helped plan the wedding.

As for Mainster and his committee, the reunion is over, but their work isn't.
"We'll have a meeting in two or three weeks, once things settle down," he said. "Personally, I'd like to see if we can send out a newsletter to everybody, with input from everybody."

The committee also oversaw the publication of a reunion souvenir book – edited by Sharon Chisvin and produced by Jewish Post and News business manager Bernie Bellan.

A video of the whole reunion has been made and the committee is considering producing a one-hour version of the concert alone.

"Peretz school instilled in its pupils this desire for community events and love of the Yiddish language," Mainster said, summing up why the five-day affair drew so many people from North America and a few from other countries, too. "It was such a wonderful institution."

Reprinted with permission from the
Winnipeg Jewish Post and News.

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