Jewish community polarized

Hillel Halkin

Once upon a pre-modern time, a definition about what it means to be Jewish was agreed on by all Jews. A Jew was someone recognized as such by Jewish religious law, which meant someone able to participate in the rituals and ceremonies of the Jewish community to which he or she belonged.

But this was back in the days when just about every Jew did belong to a Jewish community. Those times were already passing in the early 19th century and are long gone today. Outside of Israel, Jewishness, at least as far as the statisticians are concerned, has become a matter of self-definition - and self-definition, as we all know, is subjective and, therefore, intrinsically not measurable. Two people saying they are Jewish can mean totally different things by it.

This is why the debate about how many Jews there are in the United States is not really very significant. One can argue whether there are 5.2 million, as was determined by the 2001 National Jewish Population Survey, or whether there are 6.4 million, as has now been claimed in a study undertaken by demographers Ira Sheskin and Arnold Deshefsky, respectively, of the universities of Miami and Connecticut. In either case, the 1.2 million now-you-see-them-now-you- don't Jews that make up the difference are more virtual than real. This is because the Jews who are the most difficult to count are inherently those who are not part of the Jewish community, do not give their children even minimal Jewish education, and can be located only by means of random phone calls by pollsters. Even if they identify themselves as Jewish over the telephone, this identity is likely to be tenuous.

One doesn't need to be a demographer or a statistician to realize that in terms of "real" Jews, the American Jewish community has been steadily shrinking for a long time. This is not because the number of affiliated Jews has dropped sharply, but because the nonaffiliated Jews of today are of a different composition from that of the nonaffiliated Jews of former times.

Once, in the second and third generations of the great Jewish immigration from Eastern Europe, there was such a thing as an "ethnic" Jew – men and women who, although they did not go to synagogue or participate in Jewish communal life, ate like Jews, spoke like Jews, thought like Jews, socialized with Jews and married Jews. It is this type of Jew that has all but disappeared from American Jewish life. Today's fourth- or fifth-generation nonaffiliated Jew eats like other Americans, speaks like other Americans, thinks like other Americans, socializes with other Americans and marries other Americans.

And yet any observer of the American Jewish scene knows that shrinkage is only half of the story. The other half is the remarkable strengthening of Jewish education, religious observance and creativity in that part of the American Jewish community that has chosen to remain strongly Jewish. Many realize that the only way to resist assimilation is by putting more of an effort into being Jewish.

Assimilation and cultural renaissance are thus two sides of the same coin of American Jewish life, and all of the wordy arguments about what direction American Jewry is going in are largely a matter of which side of the coin one is looking at. The American Jewish community is polarizing into more assimilated Jews on the one hand, and more "Jewish" Jews on the other. The broad ethnic middle has fallen out of it.

The Orthodox community has also grown, both because Orthodox families have by far the highest Jewish birth rate and because they have the greatest success in preventing defections by their children from the Jewish fold. Although they constitute today an estimated 10 per cent of American Jewry, they comprise a third of its regular synagogue-goers, 20 per cent of its under-18 population and barely one per cent of its Jews intermarry.

Moreover, as bitter as the divide between them and Reform and Conservative Jews may be over cultural issues, the intense allegiance of Orthodox Jews to a Jewish way of life is a model that Reform and Conservatism will increasingly have to follow if they are to survive. The real demographic story of American Jewish life may turn out to be its steady "orthodoxization" in the years to come. Although this is something whose implications few American Jewish leaders or institutions have given much thought to, it is too clear a trend to ignore.

Hillel Halkin is a contributing editor of the New York Sun. This article was distributed by the Kaddish Connection Network ([email protected]).

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