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Feb. 2, 2007

Writing a living will

Leaving exact instructions makes things clear.
SHARON MELNICER

As a competent adult, you have the right to decide to accept or refuse any medical treatment. "Competent" means you understand your condition and the results your decision may have. As long as you are competent, you are the only person who can decide what medical treatment you want, and do not want, to receive.

Your doctors will give you information and advice about the pros and cons of different kinds of treatment, but only you can choose whether to say "yes" or "no." You can say "no" even if the treatment you refuse might keep you alive longer and even if your doctor or your family wants you to have it.

Someday, you may become too sick to make your own decisions about your medical care. If that happens, then decisions will have to be made for you. If you have not given any instructions, no one will know what you would have decided. This is where a legal document known as an "advanced directive" speaks for you.

Advance directives are documents signed by a competent person giving direction to health-care providers about treatment choices in certain circumstances. There are two types of advance directives. A durable power of attorney for health care ("durable power") allows you to name a "patient advocate" to act for you and carry out your wishes. A living will allows you to state your wishes in writing, but does not name a patient advocate. In Canada, we have the right to name a durable power but, ultimately, it is not legally binding, despite the fact that it is a common practice in much of the United States and Europe. But what we Canadians can do is draw up a living will, the type of advance directive recognized as a binding legal document across our land.

Why should all Canadians make a living will, even those of us still in our early 20s? Many people have strong feelings about the kind of medical care they would like to receive or refuse in certain circumstances. An advance directive allows you to clearly state your feelings. There are a few decisions to consider before you do this, however:

• Who would you like to make treatment decisions for you, if you become unable to so?

• How do you feel about ventilators, surgery, resuscitation (CPR), drugs or tube feeding if you were to become terminally ill? If you were unconscious and not likely to wake up? If you were senile?

• What kind of medical treatment would you want if you had a severe stroke or other medical condition that made you dependent on others for all your care?

• What sorts of mental, physical or social abilities are important for you to enjoy living?

• Do you want to receive every treatment your caregivers recommend?

You can purchase a living will form online or at a stationer's store like Staples or Office Depot. Of course, your lawyer can also provide you with the necessary forms. Legal advice is not required but, if you wish, your attorney can help you prepare a document. You should talk to the lawyer you have chosen to make sure that the individual understands your wishes and is willing to act upon them, as your advocate. It's also wise to discuss your wishes with your family, friends and health-care team. By law, your family, physicians and employees of your health-care facility are not allowed to be witnesses for such a document.

In Canada, you can name a patient advocate, but remember that your advocate can only have life-sustaining care stopped if you've said so legally in writing, through a living will. It makes sense to have written instructions because then everyone can read them and understand your wishes. A living will states your choices plainly and clearly. You should make sure your family and caregivers know what you want in the event that you get sick. It is also important for hospitals to understand your wishes. Writing them down tells all concerned, caregivers and family members alike, exactly what you want.

Finally, it's wise to remember that any decisions you make now about your future medical treatment can be changed. You can still make treatment choices as long as you are competent. You can change the document at any time. It is a good idea to review your living will each year to be sure it still says how you want to be treated and names an advocate you trust. If you are no longer competent, but you have made sure your family and caregivers know what you would want, it will be easier to follow your wishes. If you have not made your wishes known to family and caregivers, a court may have to name a guardian to make decisions for you. Most people want to avoid that possibility if they can.

Sharon Melnicer is a Winnipeg freelance writer.

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