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February 20, 2004

Immortalizing your memories

Technology has brought unique ways to share your life with generations.
KYLE BERGER REPORTER

It has always been said that whenever we can, we should take the time to stop and smell the flowers. Sam Reynolds wants people to do more than that. She thinks that at some point we should stop to recall and document all the flowers we've sniffed – the entire garden. That's the basis behind her company Echo Memoirs: Share your story, turn it into a book and pass it on for generations to come.

Reynolds spends her days meeting with families who have made the decision to immortalize their memories in print. Whether it's about an elderly married couple, wedding day bliss or six- and eight-year-old brothers sharing their views of the world, Reynolds said that life is too precious to just forget.

"I think that if you know where you've come from, or if in your life you take some time to reflect on how you've gotten to where you are, you're better for it," she said from her Vancouver studio. "At the pace that we all live, we don't take enough time to sit down and reflect or ask others questions."

One of the more recent projects Echo Memoirs produced was a 150-page book about Henry and Lily Cynamon – Holocaust survivors who now live in Edmonton. Their daughter, Helena Cynamon, and her siblings were concerned that the stories their parents carried with them might soon be forgotten, so they commissioned the book for their parents' 50th wedding anniversary.

"I just wanted to make sure that my parents' experiences, which were historically unique and intense, would be captured," she told the Bulletin. "Both on the global scale of what happened to many and on a personal level of what happened to them."

The hard-copy book is filled with historical family pictures, quotes from friends and story after story of the Cynamons' youth growing up in Europe, their lives after the war and the family they raised in Canada.

"Ever since I was 16, I had asked my dad to write things down and he never did, so this was a way to get it before their memories faded," Cynamon said. "Everybody in the family got a book so that we could celebrate their lives together.

"I think it's an incredible emotional investment," she continued. "It validates who they are and who we are and I recommend it to everyone."

Reynolds, who said that she boasts a 100 per cent cry rate, believes very strongly in the responsibility she has in telling these important stories.

"The stories are so beautiful that it would be a shame to produce them in a non-beautiful format," she said. "It pays for itself a million times over with everyone who picks the book up and enjoys it. I always encourage people to keep them on their coffee table. Don't let the book make its way up to the attic and don't shelve it."

The books range in price starting at $1,500. Depending on the topic of the book, the process can involve hours of interview time, an extensive tour of the family home, a look through old and new pictures or a chat with various other friends and family. It can take several months to complete a book and whoever commissions the project is always the ultimate editor-in-chief.

Although her office is based in Vancouver, Reynolds has interviewers in Victoria, Kelowna, Calgary, Hamilton, Ottawa, Montreal, Toronto, Seattle, New York and San Francisco. Echo Memoirs can be seen online at www.echomemoirs.com.

Remembered by video

Cory Bretz, the marketing communications director of the Jewish Federation of Greater Vancouver, has his own business that also focuses on documenting the lives of the community's older generation. His work, however, comes in the form of a video, rather than a book.

Heirloom Films, said Bretz, helps people pass on and transmit to the future, their essence, personalities, stories, wisdom, blessings or just personal messages for those they care about. He stressed that his form of digital immortality focuses only on seniors.

"A lot of them grew up before television was around and they have a view of the world that was not shaped by advertisers or Hollywood writers working out their emotional issues through sitcoms," he said. "They were shaped with a whole different set of values of what it was about to be a human being in the world. Those people have something important to pass on."

Bretz said that a completed Heirloom Film is reminiscent of an episode from the popular Arts and Entertainment series Biography.

"My greatest challenge is being able to take [an interviewee] into a place where they feel safe enough to reveal who they really are," he said. "The average 80-year-old person has a life that's like a tapestry that's been painted on the side of a building. The depth and the terrain of a person's life is like sifting through a hay stack and asking them if they want to pass this on to the future or not."

With a two- to four-month average production time, an Heirloom Film can cost between $5,000 and $25,000 depending on what the family wants. More information can be found online at www.heirloomfilms.ca.

Kyle Berger is a freelance journalist and graphic designer living in Richmond.

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