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July 26, 2002

Slices of (lesbian) life

Israeli films featured at Vancouver's queer festival.
PAT JOHNSON REPORTER

The emerging reactions of an Israeli family to a daughter's lesbianism is the emotional terrain of a film to be screened in Vancouver next month.

It Will End Up in Tears
, a film by Gonen Glasser, follows the love of 20-year-old Maria and her girlfriend, Nira, and the reactions of Maria's Argentinian-Israeli family. It will run in Vancouver as part of the 14th Queer Film and Video Festival.

Maria's family struggles with the reality of her orientation and the film does not offer simplistic revelations. The father, who has a remarkable resemblance to Albert Einstein, also has his own theory of "relativity." His daughter's lesbianism is a source of great anxiety for him and his reaction is primarily one of denial.

Viewers might suspect that, were a camera not introduced into his home, the father might not speak of the matter at all.

"It's a very complicated matter," says Maria's father, "...which I hope will go away. Meanwhile, I am in standby. I just want to leave it as it is and wait. If it doesn't change, I will take it into my own hands and the resolve the issue ... for myself."
Her brother doesn't take it much better.

"Call it what you like," he says. "She's sick."

Maria's mother doesn't like the situation either. She is in a state of denial like her husband, but she tends to keep impolitic comments to herself.

Not so the father, who compares his daughter's lesbianism to bestiality.

"She could just as well say she was in love with some dog, and go out with a dog," he says. "Or a horse. She would bring the horse here, upstairs, to bed."

Nira, meanwhile, has been thrown out of her family's house, leading her to spend much uncomfortable time at Maria's family home. The discomfort is not lost on Maria, who describes the scenario clinically.

"I'm aware of being a black sheep," she says. "I have destabilized the family unit."
Fence-sitting is challenged, however, when the father and daughter have a blow-up that threatens the obviously loving family. Family members are forced to take sides and, though the resolution, if it can be called that, is not clearcut, it is nevertheless interesting and even somewhat encouraging.

It Will End Up in Tears screens Sunday, Aug. 11, at 7 p.m., at the Pacific Cinémathèque. It runs in conjunction with the short film Yellow Peppers, another Israeli film about lesbians.

In Yellow Peppers, Alma and Ronit talk about how their love emerged from a kiss in the washroom at the wedding of a third friend. The two eventually go on to open a soup bar and the yellow peppers of the title represent a specialty soup, but also seems to stand for something more.

"Is food related to love and passion for you?" asks the unseen narrator of the film as the two women relax in the kitchen.

"I don't know," replies Ronit. "But the yellow pepper soup I ate at Alma's for the first time was the best I ever ate in my whole life."

"Did she invite you for soup?" the narrator presses. "How did that happen?"
These are both "slice of life" films. Neither is explosive in any social sense – issues cannot be extrapolated but must be understood as they apply to individual families. Both films are in Hebrew with English subtitles.

Also screening at the festival is Lifetime Guarantee: Phranc's Adventure in Plastic, about self-defined "all-American Jewish folk singer" Phranc (Frances Gottlieb), who once toured with The Smiths. Looking like a butch Pee Wee Herman, she became famous among lesbians for classic songs like "Do the Bull Dagger Swagger." After 20 years in the music business, she decided to settle down in Los Angeles with her family and began selling Tupperware.

Director Lisa Udelson inserts clips of hilarious vintage Tupperware promo films into the proceedings, yet it gradually becomes clear Phranc really does love both Tupperware and its world. The singer insists she's never had such a powerful communal female experience. She's genuinely upset that the company didn't recognize her appearance on the Donny and Marie Show, where she got Marie to sing her Tupperware lady song.

Lifetime screens Aug. 14, 9:30 p.m., and Aug. 15, 5 p.m., at Cinemark Tinseltown.
The film festival runs Aug. 8-18, coinciding with the city's Pride Week festivities, which include a parade Aug. 4. Tickets are available from Ticketmaster (www.ticketmaster.ca) or, after Aug. 1, at Little Sister's Book and Art Emporium, 1238 Davie St., or at the Celluloid Drug Store, 1470 Commercial Dr. For more information, see the Web site www.outonscreen.com.

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